Love is that special warm and fuzzy feeling that makes one go all mushy and happy. Each one of us must have experience love at least once in our life and I am sure you just love that feeling to be in love and to be able to love another person. I too have my shares in love, have also been in a few heart aches, a few sad endings but I guess I am never tired of love. I wonder how far would a person go in search of his/her true love??
All this thinking about love and selfishness came about early yesterday when I overheard a hot conversation on one of the local radio stations. This particular station has this morning programme where callers can call in to vent out their frustrations on any issues. One lady who called in really pisses me and made me think of how selfish one can be when it comes to love. This was what transacted between her and the DJ, live on air.
DJ : So why are you angry?
Lady : I am so mad with my boyfriend’s wife. The wife is so aggressive (she actually used the malay word – ganas!), I have to keep the relationship under warps for now as the wife is upset with the whole affair. I can’t date much now.
DJ : But I would say you are the aggressive (ganas!) one instead of the wife, as you are the one who is having an affair with a married man not her.
Lady : Hahahaa….(laughing!) yeah but she is still aggressive…I am so angry with her.
DJ : Please find a single and available guy, avoid married man.
The conversation ended….I was fuming mad when heard the way she was venting out her frustrations. Wow, she did not even have the self conscience when broadcasting it live on air. So full of herself that she did not even have the empathy for others. A person like her gives the single female population a bad name. I personally believe that, she would not want to live her life on another person’s tears and sorrow. I have been hearing too many cases of men leaving their kids and wives for other women. But why? How can one be blinded by love? Why can’t we just fall in love but at the same time be sensitive about our surroundings and not be too consumed with ourselves.
Most of the time love is never enough, one should also look at the character, personality, the heart and attributes that a person has. If she could fall for a man who is willing to have a life or an affair with her even without considering how his wife or kids feel, would she feel secured and safe with him for the next 5 or 10 years down the road? If he could do it to his wife, he could always do it to her again and again. As for the married man, if she, the so called hot babe, can just totally ignore the hurtful feelings of his kids and wife, take him away from his loving family then she will always have the heart to leave him for another man.
I am critical when it comes to a person who has no guilt at all when destroying another woman’s precious marriage. Can one have a good night sleep knowing that another woman is crying her heart out the whole night? I dunno, I am no Saint but I would rather lead a simple life with conscience and no guilt attached.
Oh well, what goes around comes around. I rest my case.
All this thinking about love and selfishness came about early yesterday when I overheard a hot conversation on one of the local radio stations. This particular station has this morning programme where callers can call in to vent out their frustrations on any issues. One lady who called in really pisses me and made me think of how selfish one can be when it comes to love. This was what transacted between her and the DJ, live on air.
DJ : So why are you angry?
Lady : I am so mad with my boyfriend’s wife. The wife is so aggressive (she actually used the malay word – ganas!), I have to keep the relationship under warps for now as the wife is upset with the whole affair. I can’t date much now.
DJ : But I would say you are the aggressive (ganas!) one instead of the wife, as you are the one who is having an affair with a married man not her.
Lady : Hahahaa….(laughing!) yeah but she is still aggressive…I am so angry with her.
DJ : Please find a single and available guy, avoid married man.
The conversation ended….I was fuming mad when heard the way she was venting out her frustrations. Wow, she did not even have the self conscience when broadcasting it live on air. So full of herself that she did not even have the empathy for others. A person like her gives the single female population a bad name. I personally believe that, she would not want to live her life on another person’s tears and sorrow. I have been hearing too many cases of men leaving their kids and wives for other women. But why? How can one be blinded by love? Why can’t we just fall in love but at the same time be sensitive about our surroundings and not be too consumed with ourselves.
Most of the time love is never enough, one should also look at the character, personality, the heart and attributes that a person has. If she could fall for a man who is willing to have a life or an affair with her even without considering how his wife or kids feel, would she feel secured and safe with him for the next 5 or 10 years down the road? If he could do it to his wife, he could always do it to her again and again. As for the married man, if she, the so called hot babe, can just totally ignore the hurtful feelings of his kids and wife, take him away from his loving family then she will always have the heart to leave him for another man.
I am critical when it comes to a person who has no guilt at all when destroying another woman’s precious marriage. Can one have a good night sleep knowing that another woman is crying her heart out the whole night? I dunno, I am no Saint but I would rather lead a simple life with conscience and no guilt attached.
Oh well, what goes around comes around. I rest my case.
6 comments:
that lady memang la tak tau malu ataupun nak cari publisiti murahan.... i mean these kinda cases memang dah byk ader..but to call and said she's fuming at her bf's wife?? she's lucky i'm not that wife!! if this happen to me..i will make her life hell then leave the loser husband. he's ain't worth it..
hmm very tricky subject tu
Adorable,
He is definitely not worth the heartaches la kan. But having that lady live on air talking like that was unbelievable. After that call of hers, many called to vent out their dissatisfaction towards her. Hahahahah!
gravt kills,
Yup very tricky and sensitive subject :P
erm erm.. i like this entry
that lady can be defined as "manusia tak ada perasaan" if I'll be at her place, would ask myself..
"If this guy can do that to his wife, so what make me thinks that he will not do the same to me??"
please please open your eyes young lady, ada affiar ngan husband ornag lepas tu nak lepas geram plak....
beb, mcm yg aku tulis in my blog tuh, skrg ni mmg lebih ramai betina drp pompuan.
betina mmg tak peduli dia pakai amik jer laki org. janji dapat aper yg dia nak, dia tak peduli kalo bini org tu terseksa nyer. pada betina, saper suruh tak pandai jaga laki, sbb tu laki cari pot lain.
betina mmg hati kering. kalo pompuan mmg ader hati dan perasaan, prihatin terhadap perasaan org lain, lebih2 lagi kepada pompuan lain.
lelaki pulak kalo dah sanggup main kayu tiga, dah kira jantan ler tu. dah mmg padan ler dgn betina tadi. buku bertemu ruas.
nzn,
memang tak de perasan, you shld hear her on radio, macam selamba je..Sigh, I dunnolah kenapa suka sangat meruntuhkan masjid org, now we shld not just blame the men for all those affairs cos I believe it takes two to tango.
liza,
i agree with you, memang dia dah bertemu dgn ruas...I believe we pompuan shld stick together and not hurt one another just because we want to be loved! If he can do it once, he can do it twice and he can do it again and again. It is never worth it la kan. Org baik2 will always end up with org baik2 jugak InsyaAllah.
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