Some people I know can be pretty obnoxious, nasty, authoritative and plain rude. Hell, no conscience or no regrets on their part when they decide to drop the bomb on you. When you point out that particular bad trait she/he has, the ANSWER you will normally get is –
“I am just being frank, honest and direct. That is how I am, don’t take it personally.”
Yeah right…probably they don’t know the difference between being “rude” and “direct” ;D
**Sigh**
Gosh, one does not have to be mean and rude to be direct, right? If you want people to respect you for being direct and open, you should first learn to be respectful of others as well. It works both ways! With that in mind, the concept of frank-ness and open-ness will be made transparent! It helps to have the brains, style and sincerity to be direct and frank. Do not try to cover your lack of kindness by saying you are being honest and direct. Grow up and be responsible for your actions.
Hmm, we need a whole lot of peace, love and respect to make the world a better place to live in. Oh well, can't just change a person in a day...
“I am just being frank, honest and direct. That is how I am, don’t take it personally.”
Yeah right…probably they don’t know the difference between being “rude” and “direct” ;D
**Sigh**
Gosh, one does not have to be mean and rude to be direct, right? If you want people to respect you for being direct and open, you should first learn to be respectful of others as well. It works both ways! With that in mind, the concept of frank-ness and open-ness will be made transparent! It helps to have the brains, style and sincerity to be direct and frank. Do not try to cover your lack of kindness by saying you are being honest and direct. Grow up and be responsible for your actions.
Hmm, we need a whole lot of peace, love and respect to make the world a better place to live in. Oh well, can't just change a person in a day...
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